Every night, women across the country slip into worn in tees or forgotten shorts, chosen more out of habit than intention. And while there is nothing wrong with comfort, sleep is one place where you deserve a little more thought.
At Softies, we believe every woman and every body deserves sleepwear that feels just right for them. The kind that makes unwinding feel easier and rest feel deeper. Finding the best pajamas starts with understanding what comfort means to you.
The best PJ sets are those that keep you comfortable throughout the night, addressing your specific sleep needs. It’s also worth considering how you like to relax in the evenings and mornings, as pajamas can double as loungewear for more than just a nighttime routine.
Below, we’ll explain what makes a premium pajama set the best choice, what fabrics to look out for, why fit matters and how to maintain your favorite PJs once you find them.
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What Makes a PJ Set Truly Comfortable
The one quality all pajamas absolutely need to even be considered for your nightly routine is comfort. The best PJ sets for women should make it easier to relax and fall asleep.
But what exactly makes PJs comfy?
Fabric plays an important role. You should seek out pajamas made from the best-feeling fabrics for your skin specifically. Everyone has different preferences, but some of the most important elements to prioritize are softness and stretch.
Durability also matters: You want PJs that stay comfy for a long time.
Another big consideration is temperature control. Being too hot or too cold makes it difficult to fall asleep and stay asleep. Your pajamas should help you maintain a balanced temperature throughout the night. Breathability and moisture-wicking properties are crucial here, as they help with excessive heat or night sweats in any environment.
Finally, there’s ease of movement. Stretch can help any piece of loungewear move with you rather than restrict you. Fit and drape are also key qualities in this regard. After all, if your pajamas don’t fit your body, you won’t feel comfortable enough to relax in them.
The Best Fabrics for PJ Sets
Fabric is arguably the most important factor when it comes to choosing the best PJ sets. It impacts the feel of a garment, the way it looks on you and how long it will last.
With that in mind, some of the best fabrics for pajamas include:
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Cotton and cotton blends – Cotton is a workhorse fabric used across nearly every clothing category, and for good reason. It’s customizable and can be optimized for softness, stretch, durability and more.
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Rayon and viscose – Rayon is a family of semi-synthetic fabrics derived from both natural and man-made sources, like wood pulp. It’s similar to silk in its soft, smooth texture and its breathability, but it’s typically more affordable and easier to care for.
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Modal fabric – Modal is a special kind of rayon derived from specific materials, such as beech tree pulp. It’s a premium fabric and tends to be softer and more durable than other rayons and semi-synthetic options. While it’s slightly higher priced, it delivers exceptional value.
These choices are all ideal, but the best option depends on preference. Some people like a silky feel, while others prefer a more plush PJ. Meanwhile, people with allergies or reactions to some materials should consider fabrics for sensitive skin, like bamboo or hemp, to ensure irritation-free sleep every night.
Why Fit Matters More Than You Think
Fabric isn’t the only determining factor of the best PJ sets for women (and everyone, for that matter). The way pajamas fit will impact your comfort throughout the night—and anytime you wear them.
The baseline consideration for fit is what shape and size you like best:
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Relaxed silhouettes are ideal for people who prefer a roomy, breezy fit.
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Fitted silhouettes are ideal for those who like their PJs to cling closer to the body.
There are also choices around whether you want long or short sleeves, a dress- or gown-like garment or even just an oversized night shirt. Additionally, features like waistbands, seams and pressure points can all make or break a garment’s comfort for you.
Ultimately, if you feel like your pajamas are pinching, bunching or hanging too loosely, they aren’t the right choice for you.
Choosing the Best PJ Set for Your Lifestyle
While factors like whether you’re a hot or cold sleeper matter when choosing the best PJs (as this affects fabric choice), sleep is only one part of the puzzle. You should also consider how a given PJ set will look in the morning, afternoon and evening. In other words, your personal style preferences and how you can style PJs for wear around the house should factor into your decision.
Your lifestyle and daily routine should also have an impact. For some people, premium pajamas double as cozy work from home outfits. Or you might be looking for the perfect loungewear for travel, like a pair of comfy sweats that seamlessly (and stylishly) take you from the tarmac to the hotel bed.
Basically, there’s no one best PJ set for all women. Every person is unique, so the best PJ set for you will depend on your preferences, lifestyle and all the things you plan to do in your PJs.
How to Care for PJ Sets So They Stay Soft
Once you find the best PJ sets for you, you’ll want to take care of them so that they last as long as possible. Routine maintenance will help you get the most out of your favorite PJs.
There isn’t any one hard and fast rule for how often you should wash your pajamas. Some experts recommend washing after three wears, at most, while others suggest washing after each wear. In general, synthetic and semi-synthetic blends tend to harbor stains and odors and may need to be washed or cleaned more regularly.
Climate and lifestyle also factor in: People who sweat more at night should wash their pajamas more often.
In terms of how to wash and dry your PJs, always refer to the instructions provided by the manufacturer, which you can usually find on a tag or the packaging.
Washing regularly can help prevent fabric breakdown over time, but another trick is keeping a few favorites in rotation. This spreads the regular wear and tear over multiple pajama sets, not just one, so every set lasts longer.
Find Your New Favorite Pajamas Today
Ultimately, the best PJ sets for women—and everyone—are the ones that make you feel good night after night, not just the first time you wear them. When shopping for your ideal sleepwear, consider the fabric, fit and care requirements to ensure long-term comfort and coziness.
Another factor to consider? Manufacturer quality and reputation.
Softies makes comfy pajamas and loungewear in a wide variety of fabrics and styles for both women and men. At Softies, we know how important comfort is. That’s why our pajama and loungewear sets are designed with premium performance fabrics that make it easier for you to fall asleep and stay asleep, relax around the house, run errands, travel and more. And you can do it all in style.
Explore our women’s PJ sets and other premium sleepwear today.
